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10 Years of Impact.
The Case for Change.

A Safe Space to be Me - Stormont Event

As we mark 10 years of community-based support, this event brings together practitioners, policy-makers, and lived experience to explore what’s working, and what isn’t.

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About the Stormont Event

This event marks 10 years of A Safe Space to be Me, a decade of responding to growing need, advocating for change, and delivering neurodivergent-affirming, community-based support across Northern Ireland and beyond.

Over the past ten years, our work has expanded significantly, not by design, but in response to increasing unmet need.

 

We have delivered over 10,000 counselling sessions, supported more than 1,000 individuals with ADHD and additional neurotypes, and developed specialist services aligned with best practice and NICE guidelines.

This milestone is not only a moment of reflection, it is a call to action.

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Why Stormont?

Hosting this event at Stormont is intentional.

As the centre of policy, decision-making, and public accountability in Northern Ireland, it provides the appropriate setting to explore the realities often hidden behind systems, including:

  • The impact of masking and invisibility

  • The cost of unmet need on individuals and families

  • The increasing pressure being absorbed by the community and voluntary sector

  • The gap between policy, provision, and lived experience

This event brings these realities into a space where change is possible.

🎭 The Theme: Masking & The System

At the heart of the event is a simple but critical truth:

Many people are not unsupported because they are coping  but because they are required to appear as though they are.

Masking is often misunderstood as choice. In reality, it is frequently a response to systems that require individuals to:

  • Appear “well enough” to be accepted

  • Communicate in ways that align with system expectations

  • Perform stability in order to be believed

This creates a dangerous paradox, where those most able to present as “coping” are often those least likely to receive support.

What This Event Will Explore

Through a combination of discussion, lived experience, and carefully curated visual elements, the event will explore:

  • The hidden realities behind “high functioning” presentations

  • The emotional and psychological cost of masking

  • The role of systems in shaping access to support

  • The increasing reliance on the community sector to fill statutory gaps

  • The urgent need for early intervention and prevention-focused approaches

Who This Event Is For

This event brings together:

  • Counsellors and therapists

  • Community and voluntary sector professionals

  • Policy-makers and elected representatives

  • Health and education stakeholders

  • Service users

It is a space for honest dialogue, shared understanding, and collective responsibility.

Why It Matters

This is not simply about raising awareness.

It is about recognising that:

  • Unmet need has consequences

  • Masking delays intervention

  • Community organisations are carrying increasing levels of risk

  • And without systemic change, this pressure will continue to grow

As our work has grown, so too has the demand, because the system has not kept pace with need.

This event contributes to a wider conversation about what must come next.

It asks:

  • What happens when waiting lists become the only form of support?

  • Who holds responsibility when individuals fall through gaps?

  • How do we move from crisis response to meaningful prevention?

This is an opportunity not just to reflect but to challenge, influence, and drive forward systemic change.

Looking Ahead

Alongside this milestone event, we will continue to expand our work — including a forthcoming corporate and workplace-focused launch, aimed at improving understanding, inclusion, and support across organisational settings.

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We look forward to welcoming you to a meaningful and important conversation. 

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Further Information

We recognise the current pressures on primary care in relation to all aspects of the work they do, not just in relation to ADHD.

The intention of this service is not to create additional workload for GPs or other practitioners, but rather to reduce pressure arising from the increasing number of patients presenting with ADHD-related difficulties.

The ADHD Support While Waiting Programme, early intervention service is designed specifically for adults who are awaiting ADHD assessment, awaiting follow-up from assessment, or attempting to access support. It is a non-clinical, psychoeducational and practical support programme, delivered by qualified practitioners, and aligned with NICE guidance.

The core aim of the programme is to:

  • Support individuals experiencing functional difficulties (e.g. executive dysfunction, emotional regulation challenges)

  • Reduce distress, overwhelm, and burnout

  • Improve day-to-day functioning and engagement with services

  • Prevent escalation into crisis or higher-tier services

  • Provide psychotherapeutic education

Importantly, this is not a diagnostic or assessment service, and participation does not require formal confirmation from primary care if the patient has the requested information.

 

Referral Process - 

To ensure minimal impact on time, we have built in multiple alternative verification pathways, including:

  • Self-referral via QR code & evidence

  • Self-declaration supported through our triage process

  • Signposting by GP practice staff

  • HSC confirmation where available

  • GP letter - A template of which we provide

This means that patients can access the service without any GP involvement if preferred.

The funding requires that the patient/service user MUST have verifiable information of having been referred and or waiting on follow up for ADHD related support.

This initiative to work alongside primary care and secondary care in a supportive capacity, rather than adding to existing pressures.

We genuinely value the role of GPs and other medical practitioners.

Downloadable Poster

If you would like any further information, please feel free to get in touch via -

info@asafespacetobeme.co.uk

02896 208284

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